last nite, i chat with an old friend, H..seems like we are in the same boat..both r single n felt miserable abt it..H had a bf last 2 years and nearly got engaged when both families started to interfere in their relationship n ruining it..she was devastated, but the guy was even worse.H had to change her number to get away from him..i guess it is hard to b just friends with ur ex..i thought H had got over it but last nite she said she's been spending a hell lot lately...n it's all because she cannot see the reason why she has to save her money..(she used to save b4 for the wedding)
it really surprised me coz i cant believe a strong, high-spirited gal like her can be so down now ..
i should learn from her story..seriously i should!!
so last nite, we came to a conclusion that we hv to keep our hearts open for anyone..everyone..u never know who is going to knock the door to ur heart..n i mean seriously knocking...
waah..did we sound desperate there?like H said..it's ok to b single ..but having a partner is so much better..there will always be someone u can turn to when u r down, exchange sms, call in the early morning and b4 going to bed, someone(apart from ur parents and family) who u know does care abt u - whether u have taken ur meal, or got sick - , someone who u can picture being at ur side for the rest of ur life , during ups and downs, sharing all ur happiness and sorrow..and someone who is able to accept u for who u r, what u r, and b greatful for it
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lin dear .... sometimes having partner doesn't mean all those you thought you miss out (or love to have) will be attend/ happen. Believe me, been there done that ... anyway you know me and how i feel about this relationship thingy :)
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